Anonymous said: You're right. No one should compare you to tiemetakeme because she has class, good looks, an amazing body, personality, class and boyfriend. That anon was totally off comparing you.
Anybody that does sexual services for money is not classy.
What do you do in your lapdances, play scrabble?
I give a lap dance. With my bottoms on. Hands off.
Congrats, you give a sexual service for money
"On the whole, people who go about sex in a way we call goal-oriented, or product-oriented, not only tend to orgasm less often, they tend to feel less satisfied with sex and their sex lives. People who tend to be more process-oriented in the sex they have, with partners and on their own in masturbation, tend to be more orgasmic and also tend to feel more satisfied."
— this article right here, a gem that I stumbled onto by accident. It’s lengthy, but contains a lovely fire analogy and is a great look at why “goal-oriented” [read: orgasm-oriented] sex and masturbation are largely counterproductive, and why it’s better to just chill out and enjoy yourself. (via hellyeahsexpositive)
Why say “ding dong you are wrong” when you could say “eggs and bacon you’re mistaken”